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The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything-- Friedrich Nietzsche
I am interested in intelligent men that can debate, discuss, entertain and challenge me. I work hard and play hard, I would like someone who can keep up.
I find that what I seek is difficult to describe. I will try to make it clearer though, as I don’t wish to waste my time or anyone else’s pursuing conversations or even relationships that aren’t going to satiate either of us.
I have a difficult job, I am sure many of you do as well. There are days when I leave the office and all I want is a drink and someone to vent to. There are days when I want to have someone crawling around on all fours making them feel the sting of my dressage whip. There are days when I want to take someone over my knee and spank them with my hairbrush till they are in tears. There are days when I just want to fuck, not me on top, not missionary style, just bent over the kitchen table fucked hard, one of his hands on my breast and one on my ass.
The latter is probably a fair idea of the majority of my days; usually; I just want to have sex and then go to sleep. I don’t want him to hang around, I don’t want to chat with him, and I won’t know which of these moods I will be in till I am in the mood. I just work too hard to devote time and effort to “training” someone. If I had time to train somebody it would be an assistant at work, not some fully grown man that thinks he needs coaching on how to live.
Please don’t contact me if you wish to be owned, molded, coached, trained, enslaved, or possessed. I want a very kinky partner with versatile needs and an ability to be satisfied with whatever level of kink I desire that night. I don’t switch, I have no desire to submit, but there are times when I am just wanting to have sex and not incorporate BDSM, I cannot tolerate someone whining about that, or begging, bratting, or in any way attempting to induce domination and coerce me into a session when I just want them to act like a man and fuck me.
I don’t want someone at my place all the time, I don’t want them calling me every night. I do want communication every day, at least a hello, and I prefer for them to ask how my day has been, it’s just polite. I would ideally prefer a partner that has 2 nights available a week, maybe 3 some weeks if it is slow at the office, but most weeks just 2. Please don’t message me going on about how you can pamper me and rub my feet and cook or clean, etc. I don’t want a houseboy, I don’t want a boy at all. I want a man, my age, or preferably several years older, someone who has an understanding of life that matches my own and who doesn’t start conversations with weird ass *kneels at your feet* kind of crap.
Just say hello and talk to me with the respect you would show any woman you are trying to garner attention from, don’t capitalize every noun that refers to me, don’t talk like you are describing stage cues (i.e. kneels, bows, kisses, etc) and for god’s sake don’t tell me why you are such a unworthy lowly little man; I don’t need a doormat; I bought one at Target; I am just looking for a man.
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My Ideal Person:
A man that is honest, open, and most of all committed. Loyalty and love aren't emotions that should be turned on and off like faucets, if you can do that, they're not real and subsequently neither is my attraction to you.
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