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I am new to this lifestyle and have connected with a Dom who has been training me as his submissive mostly by phone and email since we don't live close. (Although we have met in person a couple of times.) I obviously like my partners to tell me what to do in the bedroom and have enjoyed the training so far. I've tried several sexual practices new to me, including anal sex in the past months since we've gotten together and have enjoyed them for the most part... although I must say I do NOT enjoy lots of pain.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm straight... but have now had a couple of experiences exploring sex with another woman. I was very ambivalent about it, but must confess that it wasn't the horrible as I feared it would be and I even enjoyed it a bit.
I am looking to learn more, to explore the lifestyle and discover if I am really the true submissive that I feel in my soul. I would like to meet/communicate with others: subs who are willing to share their feelings about BDSM as well as the benefit of their knowledge and experiences; Doms and/or Masters who are also willing to share their knowledge and experiences with someone eager to learn, helping me to discover (or uncover) the sub buried within.
I would like to try many of the things that I've read about, but admit a good bit of ambivalence. I need someone who will respect my limits - but help be expand my boundaries at the same time. My limited experience has convinced me that I am not into extreme pain, but WANT to give total control to another... and will do almost anything to please that person.
Even though i enjoy giving up control, sensuality - like touching and candles and massage is still very important and foreplay (in whatever form it may take) is a definite requirement!
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