I'm a bit of a walking contradiction. I love wearing nothing but my birthday suit (and would love to frequent a nude beach with someone), but won't show off too much skin when dressed for a night out. I'm a little nervous about being here but daring and uninhibited enough to stay around. Been around the block enough times to know what I like but still be curious about things I haven't tried. I'm a dyed-in-the-wool romantic who loves sweet, long, slow and gentle lovemaking...but also wants nights of unfettered deviance, the kind that get scares (arouses?) the neighbors, leaves me spent, and has me wondering the next morning just where in the hell my knickers and the rest of my clothes are.
What I like: spanking, hair-pulling, massage, dirty talk (I want to be someone's "dirty, naughty girl"), mutual masturbation, oral (and reciprocity RULES here, gentlemen!), and submission to a certain degree; I also get EXTREMELY aroused by the sounds people make in the throes of passion.
What I'm curious about: being dominant (I've been approached by a few potential subs in cyberland, but when it came time to actually meet, they turned into pussies and never followed through); latex, voyeurism, being with a couple of men or in a gangbang (but with stipulations!). What I'm NOT into (so don't even ask): scat or watersports, blood-letting, fisting, infantilism, water sports, and anything bigger than a finger in my ass (no , but that should almost go without saying). If you're in a committed relationship (attached, married), I'm not interested: I wouldn't want MY partner going somewhere else for what he wants; neither do I want to be party to that. I'm STRAIGHT (one of my fierce Nubian friends referred to it as being "stric'ly dickly"), not gay, not even bi-curious, so being with another woman doesn't appeal to me at all.
So, MEN...serve me up whatever you've got. I'll take a look at the menu and decide if want to order or not. Oh, I should mention my Southern hemisphere is groomed (not shaved, but PLUCKED); I expect the same from you men.
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My Ideal Person:
In the past, the freak in me was a bit much for some of my long-term partners. I've just recently had an epiphany: instead of keeping my wilder side hidden, slowly unveiling it and hoping I don't scare my partner off, why not have my proclivities out in the open at the very beginning, and therefore not run the risk of losing someone who is more reserved in his sexual practices?
Of course, while I go through the early stages of "Domme Development", and exploring the boundaries of my sexual envelope, I'm not looking for anything permanent. Ultimately, though, I want (and will not settle for anything less than) a man with whom I have near-incendiary chemistry, who'll be my sub for life, who wouldn't mind switching roles once in a while, and indulging me my aforementioned proclivities of preference. I want all of that...and once done, I want to fall asleep coccooned by my lover's body, feeling safe after leaving myself vulnerable; after the lust has been indulged, I want...love.
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