I am 26, and have been submissive my entire life. I stepped on the BDSM scene two years ago and met some great people and learned a lot! I enjoy many physical and mental attributes of the lifestyle, but I really am drawn to a more nurturing Dominant. I preferred to want to submit through loyalty than to be forced under the force of a dominant.
I am looking for a ltd, someone I can seriously grow and develop my submissive talents with. I am very capable by myself, but my energy tend to be chaotic - to much for me to focus and use. With a dominant's direction, that energy is loyal, clam, and very erotic. I'm very wild in the vanilla world, yet quite normal in the BDSM scene. I love bondage, and above all I enjoy asphyxiation. I'm not a masochist at all, but I love a good spank/crop.
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My Ideal Person:
I have learned every Dom is different. What is important to me is that I am given clear directions and all communication is transparent. I can't read any Dom's mind - especially in the beginning. I also want to be treated, well, like a human outside the bedroom. In the past I felt very objectified and alone when not at "play." So I would like a Dom to take interest in me outside of play.
Also, I am 26, and while age "is just a number" I find someone within 10 years of my age will have similar maturity and goals.
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