FIRST AND FOREMOST!!! I am not going to be someone's little side girl. If you are in a relationship GET LOST. I don't care how much your wife or girlfriend bores you. I am NOT going to sneak around behind someone's back. So, I say again, if you are in a relationship I AM NOT INTERESTED!!
Now, to all of you who that irritated preamble does not apply to...
The sex part comes first on a site like this... I enjoy bondage, cuffs and ropes. Bu I also find it exceptionally exciting to be bound by nothing but the strong hands on a man towering over me. Choking is a huge turn on. Fantasies (cosplay?). Submission in the bedroom.
My pain tolerance has gone down a bit, but there are still bits and stings that I enjoy. I love being whipped with my own belt. I can't remember the word for it but crying tends to heighten my experiences, and I love to put up a fight. I love dressing up, lingerie, CORSETS (I own a few dozen), shoes and thigh highs.
I am not looking for someone to "train" me, as I think that I am fine the way that I am. I guess that means I am not looking for a Master, but I am looking for a partner...A very dominant partner.
Of course, I'll do anything for the right guy.
It has been a while since I've looked for anyone so I am not sure what other interests are noteworthy...ASK! Even if it doesn't go anywhere I enjoy explicit conversations.
A little about me, vanilla infos, as it's sometimes called...I am a single mother and active duty military. I would consider myself submissive, but at the same time I'm not a pushover. Since there is another human (my ) that relies entirely on me I do have to control most of my life, and I refuse to relent. Not to mention, through my military experience I have grown to be a little more assertive.
It's rare that I will be able to travel long distances (as in...more than an hour away), and I definitely CANNOT relocate. Also, if you expect me to do all the travelling...Well, that's just not fair. I don't want to be the only one putting forth any effort.
I am very shy, but I have my bouts of energy and curiosity. I'm compassionate, and very loyal. And if you can't tell...I'm pretty honest as well.
I'm not just looking for random hookups. I would eventually like something more out of love and life. But for now it is fine with me if everything is approached casually. But I would like some sort of relationship (even just a friendship) to exist between me and the other person. I realize that a lot of men here are looking for a little slave girl, and I won't be able to fulfill that fantasy. But maybe if I cross my fingers the right someone will come along.
Please send me a note! I would love to chat.
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My Ideal Person:
Someone strong and confident, yet compassionate and caring. Loving enough to control me the way that I feel I need, yet understanding enough to let me be myself.
I'd prefer someone slightly older than me, but not too much. The Daddy fantasy creeps me out. Since I am very active and in shape I would like someone who can at least match me on that front. Married guys playing behind their wives' backs are a definite no go. NO CHEATERS! I don't want my significant other stepping out on me, so why would I help you step out on your lady?
I am interested in women as well. As in...Very interested. Either with their hubbies/BFs, or one on one. I have never been in a relationship with a women, but it's not out of the question.
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