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My initial goal in coming to this site was to make friends and become more active in the local scene. I feel that I've accomplished that and am very grateful for the people I've met that have helped me along the way.
Now I'm realizing that although I've figured out a bit of where I want to go next in this life I've still really not experienced very much in terms of the physical, mental and emotional aspects of D/s. I'm warning you now don't ask what I'm into and what turns me on. I don't have the experience to answer beyond a few very standard things. I'm not being coy or standoffish. I really don't know.
So now what? Well now it is time it's time to find someone that will allow me to experience the physical, mental and emotional aspects of D/S. I'm looking for a Dominant more so that someone who is just into the kink/play aspect of the life. I'm not a girl that plays well. It leaves me feeling empty and sad. I don't see that changing for me. I prefer a long-term, monogamous relationship.
I'm wanting someone that is willing to take the time to develop trust and a connection so I can climb a bit farther down the rabbit hole. I'm not into poly and don't think I can trust someone who is poly enough to bare my soul to them and really develop a connection. I'm NOT looking for play. I can play anytime if all I wanted was to just learn more about what acts or toys I may like but that won't give me a chance to really explore the D/s dynamic. Although you do need to have a variety of tricks in your toy bag because I am anxious to explore a wide range of different experiences. I just want it with someone that can include the mental and emotional aspects as well.
On the vanilla side of things I'm strong, independent, smart as hell and a wicked smart ass. "Fucker" is a term of endearment for me. Some have called me a brat but it is my understanding that a brat acts up in order to get attention which isn't my thing. I just find most of what I think so funny I assume everyone else does too. If you have a problem with someone being upfront and forward at times, then we probably won't be a good match.
I know that paragraph is going to get me a ton of emails telling me how you can "bring me inline" or "teach me to respect my betters" but that kind of thing won't fly with me. I was told by my first Dominant that I am to place no one above me but my Dom and I believe that. For the right Dom I will do almost anything to please but I will kneel only for him. He is the only one I will call "Sir".
Having an opinion and being able to express that opinion doesn't make me any less submissive. Being submissive doesn't mean being weak. It's about chemistry and if things hit on all the levels it needs, then neither one of us need to pretend. I'm secure in my role and my place so I need a Dom that is even more so.
I don't get into cyber so I'm looking for R/T only. Besides I don't feel submissive when I connect with someone online. I have what I like to call distance enhanced bravery so you can beat your chest and demand all you want but you aren't getting anywhere with me online. Except for those few who do but that is a whole other story. ;)
One last thing. I'm not 35. I don't like discussing age and feel a woman should be allowed to decline to answer. Since Alt won't allow that option I just grabbed a number. If it is important to you feel free to ask. My photos are all current.
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