This is just a different kind of loving that takes you to a deeper place spiritually, physically, emotionally, and completely into enjoyment. I believe that you have to start with the vanilla side first, getting to know each other, not that you can't explore your BDSM side at the same time. You need to be well grounded in both your vanilla life and your BDSM life. Sex on the vanilla side has to be great also, because you can not play all the time (even though you can try) variety is the spice of life, what better than to have both sides with the same person. I can not think of anything more wonderful myself. I am looking for my soul mate, lover, friend, submissive, and possible husband..... Family and friends are very important to me. PLEASE NO GAMES. IF YOUR NOT A PLAYER LETS TALK. Will consider any one that I communicate with. I might have to play with alot o subs before I find the right one if I ever do find him. Until then a stable might be the way to go, I am considering that option. I am looking for serious people in the lifestyle not idiots that think this is all sex etc. HAVE TO PLAY SANE AND SAFE!!!!!! I AM NOT A PAYING MEMBER HERE BUT YOU CAN FIND ME
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My Ideal Person:
The person I am looking for would be a Christian. He will be very dominat in the vanilla world (no wimps please)of course except with me.....knows who he is and what he wants. He would like to take walks, do a little dancing, going with me to the gym, entertain family and friends, traveling, go to bar-b-que cook offs, love music of all kinds, fishing, hunting, camping, TV watching, garage sales, love to talk, arts and crafts, generous, and the list goes on and on just like that energized bunny. Now lets flip the coin when at home he would be the best submissive ever; caring, sharing, giving, understanding, knowing that the clit is in control not the penis, he should worship the clit.
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